There are plenty of things which can go wrong when you are corresponding with someone from a different culture. The good news is that if get familiar with the culture, these things are relatively easy to avoid.
The biggest mistakes that many Western men do when corresponding with an Eastern European woman is mentioning money(especially in their first few letters).
If you boast that you are making enough money, you may be attracting gold diggers and you probably don’t want that. Also, in the beginning of the corresponding it is hard to tell whether the woman you are writing to is real or is indeed a scammer, so telling about your 6-digit salary in your first letter is not the best idea.
Saying that you don’t have enough money is also a bad idea. Eastern European woman who has never been in the U.S. don’t know anything about mortgages, high taxes, retirement accounts and the like. If you say that you earn $2000 a week they understand it as if you had $2000 cash to spend every 2 weeks. So if you say that you are making 2k every 2 weeks, but then say that you can’t afford a $1000 plane ticket at the moment, she will not understand it and get offended.
The best thing is not to mention money at all. This way you will protect your wallet and avoid unnecessary explanations and culture clashes.
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intersting comments by folks here
my personal opinion about eastern european and russian women: be careful guys out there! i speak as an international leader who has been in this area to know th real game.
most of it is about sex and companionship for what?
status,and most of all money. a lot of men have been conned even by pay sites and in real life.
there is a huge difference in living standards : most of them earn a pittance and even things we take for granted like netbooks,laptops,cars etc are big things for most of these women seeking husbands.those of us who are more privuilegs do not even care much about these everyday things in our lives like our high salaries ,real estate,or global travels.they are routine for most of us.
one wrote to me about her daughter’s “high university fees”.how much? 1000 euros a year. Most of us pay over 50,000 dollars for our kid when he or she goes to an american univ.
so be careful guys.This whole thing is a rat trap and you will only live to regret it.
Focus rather on real life meetings with decent women who accept you as you are; give it at least a year to know her.if you are an educated man or businessman/professional meet women only in real luife and do not rush into marriage cos of sex.It will be a terrible mistake.Cos when these women find a richer guy with more money and status,they will change their minds and sell them selves there.